Control. Let's talk about that word for a minute. Control is defined as, "the power to influence or direct people's behavior or the course of events." When my husband and I were in the beginning stages of the adoption process we were busy filling out paperwork, setting up appointments for our home ...
Generalizing Perspectives in Adoption
There are countless perspectives about adoption. This makes a lot of sense to me, as there are three parties to consider-the adoptee, the birth mother/family, and the adoptive parents. I have noticed an unhealthy trend in the adoption community. The best phrase I can use to describe it is this: ...
Adoption Story: Terrence + Meredith
I remember the first time I spoke with Terrence and Meredith. They were so kind and friendly. We hit it off immediately as they shared a bit of their story with me. I had a feeling we would become friends and I was right! When they started the adoption process we had no idea that they would be ...
5 Tips on Talking To Children About Adoption
We were playing on the park one day when a seven year old boy with blonde hair and bright blue eyes approached me. I could tell what he was going to ask before the question came out of his mouth, as it's one I get asked often by kids around his age. I saw him looking at me and looking at the twins, ...
Children Of My Own
"Are you going to have any of your own children?" he asked. Confused, I looked down in the double stroller at my beautiful children and then directly back at the older gentleman. I could tell by the innocent look in his eyes that he didn't know what he was asking or implying. I could only muster up ...
Top 5 Questions I’m Asked As An Adoption Consultant
As an Adoption Consultant with Christian Adoption Consultants I'm asked a lot of questions about the adoption process. Today I'm sharing the top 5 questions that families inquire about with the hopes of providing information to those who are interested in learning more about the process. ...
Adoption Story: Joe + Gretchen
When people discover I’m an adoption consultant I’m met with a lot of questions. Most of them are pretty understandable! Before entering the adoption process years ago, I’m not sure if I knew what role an adoption consultant played. The short answer is that I help guide families through the adoption ...
Adoption Story: Jonathan + Alli
I remember the very first time I spoke with Alli and Jonathan. I knew there was something very special about this sweet couple and I couldn’t wait to get to know them more throughout their journey! They signed on with Christian Adoption Consultants a few months after our initial call. Once they were ...
