adoption story: kristie
You see, I didn’t even know my profile was being presented that day. I remembered the situation. Susan had sent me an email and I had asked to present, but was not able to as the expectant mama would deliver in her home state. For legal reasons I was not able to present to her. Somewhere in between, things changed. I remember Katherine saying,Your profile just kept coming across my desk. Before I took the profiles over to the expectant mama’s apartment on a last minute feeling, I put yours in the stack. There were fifteen couples along with yours in the stack. She was very adamant: she wants you!
That was July 8, 2016. The day I found out I was going to be Bria’s mama. What a journey! It was a journey that strengthened my faith. All through the wait, I had a sense of calm. Everything was going to be okay. I knew when I was matched, it would be perfect. I have not been disappointed. It was such a privilege to meet Bria’s incredible, spunky, and courageous birth mama. To hug her around the neck and tell her how grateful I am for her (I hope I get that opportunity again sometime really soon).
And? Bria is the most incredible blessing and so loved. She was meant to be my daughter.
I don’t think the Lord puts something like adoption in your heart if you aren’t supposed to pursue it. When people ask me things like,Don’t you wish you would have pursued adoption sooner?? (I’m single and will be 43 in September.) My answer is an emphatic no. Everything happens in God’s perfect timing. If I would have started the adoption journey at any other time, Bria wouldn’t be my daughter. I can’t imagine that!
For other women thinking if adoption is possible, being a single adoptive parent is totally doable! You are and will be enough! I don’t believe the Lord puts adoption in your heart unless he wants you to pursue it. Don’t worry so much about the detail of you being single: a birth mama is going to see your profile and fall in love with you.
For everyone in the wait or considering adoption, God is for you. No matter your situation, He is faithful. Your sweet little baby is out there. It just might take some time and patience.