Adoption Story: Ryan and Kacie
- Take special care to nourish and enjoy relationships with your current family members, whether it is your spouse, child, or pet. When God does give you your baby, you’ll be grateful for the memories you made during the wait.
- Try not to worry so much about the money. I know it’s hard, because adoption is expensive, but if you are $800 more in debt, for example, when your adoption is done because you had weekly date nights, went to that concert together, or took a weekend getaway during the most difficult part of the journey, wasn’t it a good investment?
- Continue to make commitments unrelated to adoption. During part of our wait, I mistakenly said to myself, “I can’t commit to that. We might have a baby.” It is hard not to get depressed if you clear your calendar and have nothing else to do than think about adoption 24/7. This goes back to giving it up to God. God doesn’t make mistakes. Sometimes His plan takes longer than we want or looks different than we thought it would, but in the end we understand why.